A kink is a kink. That’s what I’ve concluded.
And no, I’m not talking about the band from the seventies. I’m talking about being a spank-o.
I think there’s no accounting for kinks. At least for me there’s not. I’ve heard of theories about some nerve that gets stimulated when you’re spanked that can have an erotic effect. Sure, I can believe that. But that doesn’t explain why I (a child who was never corporally punished) was turned on spanking my dolls as a four year old.
I have two vanilla friends who I’ve confessed my kink to and they were both kind enough to support my efforts as a fledgling author of spanking fiction by purchasing and reading Betrothed. One of my friends, who is always happy to talk about any kind of sex and has probably had more crazy public sex than anyone I know, was excited to read it.
“Maybe I’ll get turned on. Should I tell you if I do? Or should I keep that to myself?” she said.
I laughed. “No, definitely tell me. But I have a feeling you won’t. I thinking spanking is a kink you either have or you don’t.”
When I checked back in with her, she said, “You’re right. It didn’t do anything for me.” [She did give me a five star review on Blushing Books though. Thank God for friends.]
Same thing for the other friend who read it [who also left a five star review– I have to say, I nearly did a little jig when I got the first five-star review that wasn’t from someone I know!].
I don’t blame them. I mean, as open as I am to sexual experimentation, you could never get me turned on by feet. Or furries. Or golden showers. Or any of the other kinks that people have.
That said, I think it *might* be different for guys. Please post here if you have a comment about this, fellas. My husband certainly isn’t a spank-o, but it turns him on to spank me. Maybe that’s just because he knows I like it. Maybe it’s because it’s a nice view. But it seems like some guys could *learn* to be turned on by spanking. Is that true?
Any women out there who have *learned* to be turned on by a spanking? I’d love to hear about it…