My friend told me that she’s informed her boyfriend that she needs twice the sex they’re having and foreplay every time. It’s becoming a sticking point in their relationship– she doesn’t feel she’s getting enough so she was quantifying her desires for him.
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I thought that sounded pretty good too. The foreplay every time isn’t a problem for me, but I could definite do with twice as much.
I remember Conina had some good advice about thinking of it like going to the gym– you always feel better afterward, but sometimes you just have to force yourself to do it. Force is probably the wrong word, but you know, it takes effort, especially with small children who frequently invade your bed, busy schedules and that stupid thing called life that gets in the way of my sex life ALL the freakin’ time!
I know others have posted their commitments to working out more on their blogs. Do I dare post a commitment for having twice as much sex. Just think, I’d be twice as happy, right? Twice as spanked? Twice as dominated? Yeah, that sounds good to me. Sign me up for that!
I may require some gentle accountability. Feel free to check in and make me honor my commitment.