Today’s Spanking Romance Review’s spanking round table discussion is hosted by Patricia Green who presented the topic of how or whether spanking may continue as we age.
I saw Es May also addressed this topic this week, when a friend of hers suggested TTWD might be a “phase” in their marriage.
It did take me 18 years to ask for this in my marriage, so I guess so far it’s been a short phase in the long scope of our relationship. However, considering I have been a spanko for my entire life, it’s hard to imagine it’s a phase I will ever grow out of!
I do acknowledge that the desire to be spanked, whether it’s the slap and tickle variety or the punitive variety, is a desire that stems from the sexual part of the brain. It’s a fetish. So maybe when I reach an age where my hormones no longer create the urge, I would lose my interest. Maybe I’ll never reach that age. 🙂
I remember reading on Finding Sara, that after her surgery when her hormones were dropped, she had absolutely no interest in spanking or domestic discipline.
I also remember my dad telling me when he’d reached the age where he no longer felt “girl crazy”. (He was a bit of a playboy). He said it came as somewhat of a relief to not want to chase women around.
I wonder if it would come as a relief to not think about spanking so much?
I doubt it! What else would I write about??
Check out all the Spanking Round Table Participants and their thoughts: