A 90 Day Kink Challenge!
It began as a discussion with fellow D/s author Lee Savino. We each wanted something more in our present sex/kink lives and knew we needed to be proactive to achieve it. I told her I was committed to making sure my husband and I have sex (kinky sex is better, but a quickie still counts) at least once a week. She made a similar commitment and we each agreed to hold each other accountable.
Immediately afterwards, as sometimes happens when you set an intention, I had a big fight with my husband (and we never fight). It caused to me to take an even closer look at our relationship, beyond just the sex part. So I added in the goals of exploring my “service submissive” side since that’s how my husband feels loved.
In the Romper Room (my reader Facebook group), we continued the conversation and I challenged everyone to join Lee and I with their own goals, which we will follow and hold each other accountable for over the next 90 days.
If you haven’t already, I invite you to join us. Sign up here to receive the weekly mini-challenges and updates. I set up a new private FB group (90 Day Kink Challenge) just for this challenge. To join it, you have to friend me first (a FB rule–feel free to unfriend me after) and then send me an email or FB message and let me know you’d like me to add you to the group. It’s a nice way to feel supported and discuss your progress. If you don’t want to join the FB group, feel free to reply to these messages.
If you want to participate, come up with your 90 day goal this week. It can be anything– if you’re single, it might be to join fetlife.com or some kinky dating site. If you’re vanilla, it might be to add a little kink into your normal play. Or it might just be to read a book with a new kink, like breath play, or ageplay.
Comment here with your goal, or post it in the Facebook group.
Keep on the path to your Kinkily Ever After!!